Monday, July 11, 2011

How did I come here ?

Jai Gurudev !!


How did I come here ?
 One question which I used to ask im my young age , say some 5 , 6 years is coming to my mind.I still remember very well, I used to ask that question persistently to my mom ,my grandma, grandpa etc.
I used to get one typical answer. "We were asking for a child to God. So, he came and dropped you inside the house . "
Our house used to have an open space in the middle- a tiled thatched house. I just used to stand in the centre of the house and stare up at the open sky above, wondering how God would have dropped me from above.
I didn't know why that question pestered me so much , that too at that small age.
Though for time being my mouth was made shut by the answers of the elders, that question "How I did I come here ?"  was still lingering in my mind and the search was there.
Soon with the passing years , I came to know about the secrets of the process behind the child birth and  calmed my mind to an extent.
But , the answer to the same question with the matured age , I find is,
" I came here to nullify the karma accumulated in my previous births.
Based on the Karma , my place and time of birth was determined and the family in which I have to be born was also chosen. "

It's strange that one question is being carried over all through my ages.'
Who knows perhaps ,I might get a better anwer in near future !!

Love & smiles...

Sunday, July 10, 2011

I am THE WAY, The TRUTH !!

Jai Gurudev!!

The neighbouring house lady was seen shattered and broke down upon seeing me . I also felt painful on looking at her state. I just asked , " What happened aunty ?"
"A great disater has fallen upon me , my only son has fallen in love with a Muslim girl !! "
I just thought " Oh ! This is the matter ! Not something serious " . Then I just allowed her to let out her emotions completely .
She continued for another about ten fifteen minutes non-stop . I was just a quiet observer , watching her with my full attention towards her.
" U see , my husband lurched me at the tender age of three of my son. How much I struggled to bring him up all alone !!Jesus was the only saviour . He helped me to tide over all the difficult phases of my life . My son has started standing in his own legs , . I was just feeling happy and telling tons of thanks to my Father . Though my health condition is very bad , taking medications for Rs.5000 per month , my son takes care of me. Now all of a sudden , my son has fallen trapped in that girl's web . What will I do ? He's decided to do the registered marraige in a month . My relatives has stopped talking to me . I will not be allowed in the church too after his marriage.I am unable to conduct my son'e marraige grandly My head which had risen high , now has dropped down to the ground.The girl is not good in anything - no beauty, very short, doesn't know cooking.She'll not convert to a Christian . She will have beef .That girl would then drive me away after marriage . I 'm going to suicide !!"

I just couldn't bear her talks  further .
I interpreted, "Aunty ! What has happened now that you want to suicide ?
Your health condition as you sais is already poor and you however are going to die shortly. Why do you want to hurry so fast ? Now atleast you have the eyes to cry ? After your death , the soul suffers so much , will not even know how to let out the emotions also !! "she was listening with a stunned look and then it was my turn to retaliate for her words,
"Further , your should feel happy that your son has selected a match right for him . The beauty is not external . My aunt's daughter , who ia a beauty queen , married to a guy with hero alike looks , could see her mariaage broke within a year or two. Now she has married a divorcee again. If the understanding is mutual and there's inner  harmony , ur son's life will be blissful for sure.
For that , your blessing is required .Give your beloved son , your whole-hearted blesssings . Arrange a wedding reception that would pave way for the receiving of blessings from friends and elders.
You be firm and say , "Yes, my son is getting mariied to a Muslim girl !!" , Nobody can tell anything agianst that , right ?!
Then , Why do you want her to change her belief  from Allah to Jesus ? 
When you say , " Jesus is The Way, The Truth , The Life !" ,
"Did not Jesus mean  "He's the only Truth , The only way !!"
meaning "Every other Way is His-Jesus' only ?!"
Does it not imply that "The way of Allah is also the way of Jesus ?!
Your Jesus is also The Allah there !!
That's the Truth !!

Now, Be positive !!
That will have a positive impact !!

Think that your son is going to live happily ever after !! That will happen for sure.

Be happy !! "

The aunty seemed to be  relieved of her worries and her face bloomed , coming out of ignorance and she said "Thankyou Suvetha for making the points clear !! "and left the place ...

The only words left with me was  "Jai Gurudev !! "

Love & smiles...






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